My friend and I (both women)are looking for a place to celebrate our 40th birthdays. We have both traveled extensively in other parts of the world (2 yrs backpacking)so we have pretty high expectations in terms of great beaches, charm, interesting people, adventure, and natural beauty. Does anyone have a great idea about a place where we can relax, spoil ourselves, have an adventure? We can only take a week now that we have kids and work...but will leave those behind for this special celebration! Cheers!